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Dear Ones,

A Celebration of the Life of the Rev. Dr. Peter Strimer will be held Saturday, December 3, at 10:00am at St. Mark’s Cathedral, Seattle. All are invited. Please continue to keep his wife El, and his family, and all who grieve in your prayers.

The Rev. Dr. Peter McCoy Strimer

Born: 1954 in Delaware, OH. Parents, Robert & Jane


  • 1976 BA (Religion), Duke University, North Carolina
  • 1980 MSW, School of Social Work, University of Connecticut, Storrs, Connecticut
  • 1980 MDiv, Yale Divinity School, New Haven, Connecticut
  • 1994 PhD (Community Organization) The Ohio State University, Columbus, Ohio

Married: 7/29/1995 Eleanor (El) W. McFarland


  • 9/7/1980 Diaconate, by Bishop William Grant Black
  • 12/15/1981 Priesthood, by Bishop William Grant Black


  • 1980-1985 Associate Rector, Trinity Episcopal Church, Columbus, Ohio
  • 1985-1988 Director, The Hunger Network and Hunger and Development Coalition of
    Central Ohio, Columbus, Ohio
  • 1991-995 Vicar, St. John’s Church, Columbus, Ohio
  • 1994-1995 Co-Pastor, Third Avenue Community Church, Columbus, OH
  • 1995-2003 Urban Worker, St. Mark’s Cathedral, Seattle, WA
  • 2003-2006 Communications Missioner for the Diocese of Olympia, Seattle, WA
  • 2006-2014 Rector, St. Andrew’s Church, Seattle, WA
  • 2019-2022 Assisting Priest, Epiphany, Seattle, WA

Peter was born in Delaware, Ohio in 1954 to Robert and Jane Strimer. Peter attended Duke University where he earned his BA in religion in 1976. In 1980, he then went on and earned a master’s in social work from the School of Social Work at the University of Connecticut. Peter graduated from the Yale Divinity School in 1980 with his master’s of divinity, and in 1994 Peter successfully defended his dissertation “A sense-making study of the praxis of the Third Avenue Community: toward a procedural understanding” and received his Ph.D. from The Ohio State University in community organization.

On September 7, 1980, Peter was ordained as a Deacon by Bishop William Grant Black, and on December 15, 1982, he was ordained as a Priest by Bishop William Grant Black.

Peter first served as the associate rector at Trinity Episcopal Church in Columbus, Ohio, where he staffed and expanded the Open Church Program and provided services to homeless families and individuals. This led him to serve on the Open Shelter Committee, which started the first shelter program in central Ohio. He also founded the Peace Initiatives Network for the Diocese of Southern Ohio.

As the Vicar of St. John’s Episcopal Church in Columbus, Ohio, Peter helped to foster a weekly food program, a transitional housing project, and a literacy center. From 1994-1995 Peter would serve as the Urban Vicar, under the appointment of Bishop Herbert Thompson, re-opened the abandoned, Third Avenue Community Church where he started a neighborhood health and wellness program and a daytime hospitality program that was staffed by nurses, a medical director, several social worker interns, and a CPE resident.

In 1995, Peter came to Washington State because friends sent him articles relating to the work St. Mark’s Cathedral’s was doing with the homeless. He was hired by the Very Rev. Frederick Northup, Dean of St. Mark’s, as an Urban Worker. At St. Mark’s, Peter recruited and trained volunteers to assist the Capital Hill Decency Principles Project to end hunger and homelessness. That same year Peter would marry Eleanor (El) W. McFarland. Peter would leave St. Mark’s in 2003 to become the Communications Missioner for the Diocese of Olympia and served as the spokesperson for the Diocese until 2006.

Peter was called to St. Andrew’s in Seattle where he served as Rector from 2006-2014. Peter retired in 2014 and he and his wife El moved to Florida but would often make visits to Washington state. In 2019, Peter’s final calling was to Epiphany in Seattle as an assisting priest. There he taught children’s sermons and adult classes. Some of the classes he taught were “The History of the Book of Common Prayer” and “A Popular History of the Episcopal Church.”

Peter served on committees and was involved with the wider community. In 1998, Peter served as a Jubilee Officer for the Diocese and was on The Church Council of Greater Seattle. His experience and knowledge in areas of meeting the needs of the marginalized was something that Peter worked tirelessly on. In addition, Peter also mentored clergy during his time at St. Andrew’s helping clergy with their spiritual journal and offering help and advice whenever he could. Peter would retire to Florida, where he died in 2022.

In a blog post that Peter posted on July 11, 2021, for Epiphany in Seattle he talked about the challenges of living in Florida and of hurricanes. At the end of the blog post, he wrote “We can act like the disciples, getting caught up in the fray, afraid of what is before us, angry about it. Or we can be like Jesus, calm in the storm with grace and patience. Be like Jesus.”



The Rev. Dr. Peter Strimer, A Celebration of Life

9 thoughts on “The Rev. Dr. Peter Strimer, A Celebration of Life

  • November 2, 2022 at 3:08 pm

    Such a lovely and brilliant man and pastor. He served as interim at an episcopal church I attended in Tampa. In that short time he was much loved. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. May he rest eternal. Rev. Thomas L. Shanklin, (Retired)

  • November 2, 2022 at 3:57 pm

    Fr Peter lifted our spirits and was a wonderful supply priest at St Mark’s Episcopal Church in Tampa Florida. I mourn at his death but celebrate his peace. 😇🙏. He touched many hearts st St Mark’s.

  • November 5, 2022 at 11:38 am

    Fr. Peter served at St. Mark’s Tampa for a short interim. What fun he was! And what compassion he offered to all. I still have the mustard seed he gave to us as a reminder to have even a little faith. My prayers are with his family and all who loved him. Rest in peace.

  • November 9, 2022 at 8:44 am

    I knew Pete on many levels. I worked with him at 3rd Avenue in Columbus . I was raised in Episcopalian and my father was a priest so I get that part of who he was.
    He was/is my soulmate in so many ways. Hes the godfather with El to both of my daughters .
    One of the things I loved about Pete is that he loved to organize parties and get people together to celebrate life. He started something in Columbus called Dance Junta and whenever a Dance Junta was called, it was your obligation to drop everything and show up and dance for the pure joy of being alive.
    In a way I feel like he has not left me. I still hear his voice in my head saying Hey Gaillie!
    When you are connected to someone in a deep way, they are with you always.

  • November 16, 2022 at 7:06 am

    Peter was a classmate at Yale and great friend. He and several others hiked through the White Mtns of New Hampshire in May of 1980. It snowed.. Unfortunately he somehow lost his tent on the trail. He was a deep snorer. He also achieved a perfect score in the recall portion of our ordination exams, exposing his photographic memory skills. A good man with a great heart.

  • November 27, 2022 at 10:35 pm

    So many of us who cannot be there in person are hoping his service will be streamed. His community of family, friends & former parishioners crosses the country. We were soooo lucky to have him as our rector @St Andrews Seattle for as long as we did & it went by all too soon.. Missing him deeply.

  • December 3, 2022 at 7:32 am

    In our house, he was Uncle Pete! He and I had both married into the McFarland family, a bond we enjoyed! He was the best! He consistently oozed love for others and a love for life. I’m so sorry we didn’t share that with him. I thought we had plenty of time. 😢
    He is greatly missed, especially at the holidays. 😍
    We love you Uncle Pete! ❤️❤️❤️

    • December 12, 2022 at 10:12 am

      Pete was the glue that held a group of elementary and high school friends together in central Ohio. He gathered us every summer for a potluck or dinner out to catch up on our lives. This past September he helped coordinate our 50th high school reunion and we had a great time. He was my best friend since I moved to Delaware in 1964 and I agree, I thought we had plenty of time. I was lucky to have known him and to have given him a hug in September. He’s always on my mind.


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